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Aug. 18th, 2008

Steph

Surprise Engagement!

The details as they happened….

 

 

So Dave had asked me to go with him to the Mountain View Grand Resort (http://www.mountainviewgrand.com/) a few months ago. This was to be a business retreat for the R&D staff for SW along with their significant others. I sort of hesitated at first. I remember when he went last year. I believe I was in Nashville Tennessee and I believe he didn’t have any cell phone reception there so it was difficult to touch base with him. Regardless, I wasn’t too sure if I wanted to go. Travel for work isn’t up there on my list of favorite things to do but once Dave explained what type of business trip it would be (consisting of only 2 meetings) and that we’d get to spend time at a beautiful resort that he’d never been to somewhere near Mount Washington New Hampshire I decided it would be foolish if I didn’t go. So I told him to sign me up.

 

As our trip approached, I had just returned from the Northwest Territories of Canada for work and my family had just come to visit us in Madison, so I was happy it was coming. Sort of like a little time together before we closed out the summer.  I was also a little anxious about it too. Dave reassured me that we would have a super time and not to worry.

 

In fact we did have a super time. Upon arrival at Logan sometime close to 11pm on Tuesday the 13th I knew that it would be a relaxing time ahead of us. Dave picked me up and we drove back to Concord for the night which is where he was staying the previous night as he went out a day before me.  We went to sleep pretty quickly and woke up on the late side. We went to the restaurant on the first floor, had a great breakfast, and headed off to see the Concord office. I got to meet several people that I hear him talk about on a daily basis.

 

From there we started out for our trip to Whitefield NH. It was roughly a 3 hour drive. We stopped along the way in Plymouth for some lunch and get to the resort just in time to leave for our kayaking trip. It was so much better than I ever thought it would be. We were seemingly gliding across the water. We were out in the small lake for about an hour. Then it was time to head back to get ready for the reception and dinner. We sat with a group of people Dave knew and after dinner Dave had the first of his two obligatory meetings. I met up with Tom’s girlfriend Shannon and we had a cocktail and sat on the front porch waiting for the boys. Finally they came. It was close to 10:30pm. We were pretty tired so we said good night to the others and headed off to bed. The next morning came and Dave got up early to hit his second meeting. It started at 7:30am but I got up with him and went swimming shortly thereafter. I met him on the front porch again close to 10am for our scheduled hike. We met the guide (a teenager working through the summer) and two other guys that Dave works with but didn’t really know. Since no one else showed up we headed out towards the trail. We first walked by the horse barn…yick…it’s never been something I could stand. Then we started to walk into the mud. It had been raining a lot there in the last few weeks and the mud was deep and considerably mixed being right next to the barn and all. I asked the girl before I left if I could wear flip flops…she said it would be ok…it wasn’t. As we walked my shoe got stuck in the mud and came off my foot. I was totally grossed out and I told the guys that I wanted to head back. Finally everyone agreed. We started back towards the golf course which was also saturated and decided that would conclude the tour. So Dave and I started to walk back towards the main hotel. The night before I had seen these chairs on top of this little hill and had taken some pictures from them so I pointed them out to Dave. He said we should walk up there and relax for a little bit before lunch. So we got to the top of the hill and plopped into the chairs. THEN Dave started talking. The conversation got serious and I knew it was definitely important. So I became less relaxed in my chair and turned to look at him as he was speaking. As I turned he was getting out of his chair and onto his knee. It was by far the most moving and beautiful moment of my life. Everything was slowing down and we both were SO HAPPY. I said yes right away or at least I thought I did but it could have just been nerves thinking. It was such a great moment. I still am having a hard time with words on this. If you’re reading this and you’re married you probably know what I’m talking about. Dave and I work. We love each other; we are in love with each other. We work at what we’ve got together. I can’t say enough about who Dave and I are together and how much I believe in our relationship and now our life together.  I was standing there in a state of surprise and shock literally shaking and very happy. We sat back down after a few minutes and Ron (Dave’s old boss) and his fiancé came walking up the path towards us. They shouted over to us and asked what’s going on.  I replied with a shout back that we JUST GOT ENGAGED.  Ron and his fiancé both said “You mean right now, like RIGHT NOW?” We said yes and they came over to us to congratulate us and to see the beautiful ring. I was shaking. Dave was shaking. We were so happy. They gave us some advice and also told us they got engaged last year in New Hampshire and that their wedding was in two weeks.

 

From there we walked into the hotel to make some phone calls. I called my Mom first who was very excited and welcomed Dave to the family as her newest son-in-law to be and then we called Mom and Dad Blumenthal. They were very excited for us too. In fact Dave’s mom and my mom had basically the same reaction. Call after call (big family on my side) we got to the end of the immediate contact list and asked Dave’s parents and sister not to tell Ed and Amy yet as they had planned to visit us on Sunday so we wanted to surprise them. We went for lunch and told a lot of people and then went out to see the model airplane show. I really couldn’t concentrate on this at all. I mean come on…the love of my life had just proposed to me and I was in this beautiful place and and and….let’s just say the model airplanes were not the only thing flying.

 

We actually took a nap after that. It was a perfect calm really. Then we headed out for dinner where we told more people and received some more congratulations. It was very nice. We had a movie date later on in the evening at the movie theater inside the hotel where we saw Ocean’s 12…actually where Dave saw Ocean’s 12 and I started snoring. (Movies do that to me)

 

On Friday morning we got up for some breakfast and went back to the room to pack up. We planned to stop in Longmeadow Mass to see my Aunt and nieces so we were preparing to drive for a bit too. We packed up the car and headed out with some boxed lunches. Opposite from Ireland, Dave did all of the driving. It was so nice to just let him to it. I nodded off here and there and we listened to a few episodes of Car Talk and This American Life and after a few hours in the car we finally made it to Longmeadow. Aunt Carolyn, Emily, and Jenna were there to greet us. Uncle John was away on a business trip, so he’s actually the only family member of mine that Dave hasn’t met yet. They were all so excited and happy for us. It was good to see them too. They have a new house and we got a tour and picked up some new ideas on basement remodels for the future. It was nice to show off Dave and my new ring too.  =)

 

After Longmeadow we headed back to Boston Logan to return the rental car and check into the hotel. We had an early flight so we wanted to relax a little and have some dinner before going to sleep. This was by far the best trip that I’ve ever been on. I can’t tell you how excited and happy and in love I am. I truly feel so fortunate to have Dave in my life.

He is incredible.

 

Back in Madison, Sunday morning we had breakfast with Dave L and Melissa (they’re getting married in a few weeks) and broke the news to them.  Then we were off to meet Dave’s brother Ed and his family passing through Madison on their way back from a family vacation.  While touring our house, Ed was standing in our guest room while I was talking to Amy out in the hallway when Ed put 2 and 2 together. There was a wedding magazine that we picked up at the airport sitting on the desk right next to Ed who noticed it, looked up at Dave, looked back at the magazine, tried to look at my ring finger and finally said “nice ring” and so the story came out. It was very nice that Ed, Amy, Emily, and Rachel were able to stop by on their way home, but it was even nicer that they were here to share the excitement with us.

 

Pictures at:

 

http://flickr.com/photos/poijuggler/sets/72157606823377101/

 

Aug. 1st, 2008

Steph

The Ireland Story



Okay everyone....we know it's been forever since we actually got back...but we've been so busy this had to wait a little bit. Better late than never at all! 



Northern Ireland, Spring 2008
http://flickr.com/photos/poijuggler/sets/72157605508640373/ – the full set of pictures – all the links below are just points in the set.
 
Saturday May 10
 
[Dave writes…]
I thought I’d make some notes from our first day in Belfast while I give my arteries time to absorb the full impact of our first “Ulster Fry” breakfast and Steph makes ready to head out.
The flights in went about as well as can be expected. Dave L. dropped us off at the airport with enough time to spare that we were able to catch an earlier flight to Chicago, with a free upgrade to the front row seats from which we had a pleasant conversation with our flight attendant Grace. The overseas flight to Heathrow was much less comfortable. Narrow seats and an oft-crying baby meant we didn’t get much sleep, but we survived what was ultimately the worst part of the whole trip. Heathrow is a labyrinth; at least it’s well populated with staffers who can tell you when you’re in the wrong queue. We had time for a nice bit of pizza before flying off to Belfast. It was a pleasant surprise to see that our luggage made the flight as well. A quick stop at the information desk to purchase a bus pass, and we were off in a taxi to our first bed and breakfast. The taxi driver was happy to point out where the Titanic was built and to tell us where to go see the Belfast political murals, though to be honest I didn’t really understand much of what he said.
The B&B was a little disappointing. It was cheap enough for being in the city, and conveniently located on a bus line and nearby to a number of shops, which was nice. However the room, which might have once been a front room in the Victorian style house, was somewhat rundown and the bed wasn’t the most comfortable. We took a little time to shower and change and collect our thoughts. Then off to the bus into City Centre, some consulting of the map, and a short hike to dinner at a pub I had heard about. Which was completely booked. Fortunately, the apologetic waitress gave us directions to another pub. Which was also completely booked. Saturday night in downtown Belfast seems to be pretty busy, with a convergence of urban punk, high fashion chic, and traditional downtown pub dwellers. Feeling defeated, we went across the street to a lackluster diner with bad service. After suffering through overcooked peas, flat soda, and the Irish fascination with potatoes, we set out to locate some concert venues.
We found The John Hewitt, a little pub with a session in the corner and a boisterous barman who assured us we wouldn’t need reservations for the concert there the next night. It would have been grand to have a pint and listen to the jig being played on the fiddle and bodhrán, but we had another concert to find. In retrospect, that was the only traditional session we came across for the rest of the trip, and I regret that we didn’t stay. Nonetheless, a little wandering, a little map checking, and a little consulting with the natives, and we found the Black Box. The band was still setting up so we went ’round the corner to another bar, the Duke of York, and had drinks. The concert was… disappointing. The bands – a local trio that opened and a Nashville experimental project called the Silver Jews – just seemed off. We left early, went back to the first pub to make reservations for Sunday night dinner, hiked back to City Centre, and caught the last bus home. Sleep came easy.
Now, with breakfast settled, and a stroll around the neighborhood to get some better coffee and take in the fresh air, we’re awaiting Martin, a taxi driver with high recommendations from our host, who will drive us around to see historic Belfast and the political murals.
Our first day in Belfast was definitely a learning experience. On the plus side though, the Argonne anti-jet-lag diet worked splendidly and we had no trouble adjusting to the new time zone. Steph even agrees it was worth doing without coffee in the mornings last week. And possibly the most amusing observation of the day was seeing little kids driving cars. At least, that’s what it seems like when you see a kid looking at you from what you expect to be the driver’s seat of a passing car.
 
Sunday May 11
 
[Dave writes…]
Martin, who as it turned out looks a bit like a leprechaun, provided a highly entertaining, colorful, and passionate tour of the city. He drove us around to see many of the political murals painted on the sides of buildings throughout Belfast, some by the Catholic Republicans who oppose British rule and want Northern Ireland to unify with the Republic of Ireland, and some by the Protestant Loyalists who support the British crown. We got to see a number of important buildings and sites, as well as some sections of the Belfast peace lines – a series of walls and fences erected by the British to curtail fighting between adjacent opposing neighborhoods. Martin had no shortage of opinions to share, and always made sure we were still interested as he gave us the history of the Troubles. His anti-British Government leanings started to wear on by the end of the trip, but we certainly had a much better time and were learned in the Belfast conflict much better for his insight.
He dropped us off by the River Lagan and we wandered a bit, stopped in a wee café for a spot of lunch, and wandered some more. Steph called her Mom for Mother’s Day while I took pictures of St. Anne’s Cathedral. We stopped back at the Duke of York for wine and a Guinness, and then returned to the Black Box for the Paperboys concert. The Paperboys were fantastic. Hailing from Vancouver but performing mostly in Europe these days, they gave an energetic performance with an internationally eclectic blend of rock, Celtic, Mexican, country bluegrass, and European folk. After the show we tried to convince them to come to Madison but that’s going to be a long shot.
We were exhausted after the show so we hung out on a bench by the river for a bit, then hopped across the road to McHugh’s Restaurant for some Asian/Irish fusion food in Belfast’s oldest building. It was delicious, and we finished it off with some traditional Irish desserts. Then it was a short stroll to The John Hewitt to hear the guitar stylings of Lee Rogers, a Belfast area native. Lee was great but the venue wasn’t – we couldn’t see the stage and it was hard to hear over all the talking, so we opted to leave and catch the last bus back to the B&B.
 
Monday May 12
 
[Dave writes…]
Monday was our first excursion out of Belfast. After breakfast, we negotiated the busses over to the city airport to collect Leon, our rental car (a Leon is a model of car from SEAT, a Spanish car manufacturer). Steph was eager to try driving on the left, so she took the controls while I navigated us along the A55 to the M1 towards Dungannon and the Tyrone Crystal factory. Steph proved to be awesome at driving on the left, and we made a great team. I helped remind her what side of the road to turn into and how to negotiate the roundabouts, and she helped spot errant road signs. We forgave each other’s minor mistakes and made our way into the Irish countryside.
Everyone talks about how green Ireland is. I wouldn’t say that the trees or grass are more green there than in, say, Wisconsin, but there is certainly more of it. The fields, the mountains, the hedges, the walls that border the narrow winding roads, all covered in green. The exceptions are the yellow hedge shrubs and the white sheep. So many sheep. Sheep in fields. Sheep on hills. Sheep on cliff tops. I think there are more sheep in Ireland than people.
Our first stop as we found our way through the outskirts of Belfast was Giant’s Ring. After a somewhat distressing drive uphill through a narrow twisting wall-lined lane, we found the car park and wandered in. Giant’s Ring is basically a large green grass field encircled by a sloped embankment about 650 feet in diameter and 13 feet high. At the center is a dolmen, an arrangement of large rocks piled into a structure resembling a child’s fort, which was presumably a passage tomb that was once covered with a mound of earth. It was apparently an ancient burial site and/or place of ritual worship dating back some 5000 years. Now it serves primarily as a pickup site for gay men, a fact I had stumbled across online and which was now confirmed by the presence of the half dozen cars in the car park each containing a solitary middle-aged man, and the occasional man walking or jogging across the ring and into the woods on the far side.
Having seen enough, we wound our way back to the main road and moved on. The M1 is probably the only true divided motorway (what we would call a freeway) in Northern Ireland, and it didn’t take long for us to arrive at the Tyrone Crystal factory. Unfortunately we were a little late for the 12pm tour, so we drove a little further into Dungannon for lunch. Now let me tell you something about parking in Ireland. When you parallel park, it doesn’t matter which direction the car is facing – with traffic or against it. If you see a spot on the other side of the road, you just cross the oncoming traffic lane and take the spot. We attempted this. It resulted in an awkward maneuver involving staring down an oncoming bus, and accidentally honking at an old man trying to cross the street in front of us. But it ultimately worked and we found a nice pub with sandwiches and a pint for me and a coffee for Steph.
One U-turn in the town centre later and we were back at the factory for their 2pm tour. It was remarkably interesting. The factory was founded in the 1970’s to provide work for the community; it was a priest who bought some cutting wheels and his students learned to cut glass on old jars. They recruited a pair of Austrian glasswork experts who happened to be travelling in England at the time, and who stayed on to run the new company. To this day Tyrone Crystal still cuts all their crystal by hand. The tour itself was unlike one you’d find in the states. We were led right up next to the machinery, we interacted with the workers as they poured and cut the glass, and we were even just a few meters from one of the two Austrians who started the company – he was operating a press forming blobs of molten glass into paperweights. After the tour we picked out a couple of items from the shop to buy, and drove back to Belfast.
Along the way we stopped off at a nature preserve on the shore of Lough Neagh, Ireland’s largest lake. The lake is said to have been created when the Irish giant Finn McCool hurled a large chunk of land at his rival in Scotland, missing him and creating the Isle of Man in the process.
Back in Belfast, we relaxed at the B&B for a bit, looked through some restaurant guides, took the bus downtown, and went for a ride on the Belfast Wheel. This is a 200 foot Ferris wheel with enclosed glass gondolas that offer a unique view of the city, from the giant shipbuilding cranes on the harbor to the old Victorian buildings downtown to the mountains beyond the city. We went around several times before they let us off (possibly because the wheel operators were busy loading and unloading the troop of Brownie Girl Scouts that queued up behind us). Dinner was around the corner at what was possibly the best restaurant in Northern Ireland, Deane’s. I had something fantastic made from a rabbit. Steph’s was made from a sheep. We finally left in time to catch what I expected (mistakenly, it turned out) to be the last bus. It was already pulling out and I was determined not to miss it, so I imposed myself bodily in front of it. The driver intoned that he should have run us over, but he let us on anyway and we returned to the B&B for the night.
 
Tuesday May 13
 
[Dave writes…]
Tuesday morning marked the start of another beautiful day; as it turned out, remarkably and uncharacteristically, every day of our trip had beautiful weather. We packed up, had breakfast (more fried meats, fried breads, fried eggs, and fried tomatoes than one could ask for), and settled up with the B&B. In retrospect, this was our second-least favorite B&B of the trip. The room was spacious but the paint was peeling, the breakfasts were good but not as fresh as at other places, and of our host couple, the man was helpful but not around much, and the woman who was around more often was decidedly not helpful for getting recommendations of things to do or places to eat. Regardless, it served our needs just fine.
We headed north through Belfast and the only real traffic we encountered on the trip, and found the A2 Coastal Road which took us to neighboring Carrickfergus and the best preserved Norman castle on the island. Carrickfergus Castle was originally built in 1177 into the rocks at the water’s edge, overlooking the harbor of Belfast Lough. It was expanded a few times over the years, and remained in military use until 1928. Now it’s open for tourists to explore and it’s decorated with life-sized mannequins representing the people who lived there – royals, soldiers, peasants, etc.
 
[Steph writes…]
We got there just as the castle was opening in the morning. As we walked up the incline to the ‘front doors’ of the castle, there were two models of guards which I posed for pictures with.
Dave and I wandered around the castle.  Its layout made it rather easy to imagine just what it would have been like when the castle was in full functioning order.  Very well preserved.  We toured every possible open room and area and climbed the spiral tower.  I’m sure Dave knows the correct name for it [the Keep], but to me it’s from Rapunzel. The views from the top were amazing. As we were coming down the spiral staircase there was a group of pre-school aged children sitting in an area joining the end of the stair case reenacting castle life. Quite cute.
We wandered a little, got several post cards from the shop and continued with our drive up the coast towards Drumkeerin, our B&B for the next two nights. Along the way we decided that we would stop to get an aux adaptor to listen to the iPod in the car, and have some lunch. We stopped at this plaza in a town called Larne and had an interesting encounter in a catalogue order shop much like Service Merchandise however they wouldn’t be able to get what we wanted until Tuesday. So we walked on where we came across a cell phone shop where we thought we might just find what we were looking for. It turns out that we didn’t but this guy (possibly the owner) was telling us how he drove his Fiat Panda across the U.S.  I just looked him up and much to my surprise I found some information on the story he described to us. http://www.larnetimes.co.uk/news/TRANSAMERICA-IN-A-15YEAROLD-FIAT.1582421.jp and this is the link to the paper who wrote him up!  We did get some useful information other than interesting stuff from him.  He directed us to a hardware store of sorts up the street and told us we’d find a place to eat lunch there as well.
Not only did we find the iPod adaptor but we also found some good fish and chips and mushy peas for lunch. It was a good stop that ended with some really really good ice cream (rum raisin) but it was time to move on.
The drive was absolutely gorgeous although it was somewhat difficult for me to take my eyes completely off of the road ahead. It was all around us. Curvy coastal line driving on roads so narrow I’m surprised I did us no damage. At one point we stopped on the side of the road which was also adjacent the ocean to have a break. It was so peaceful and so beautiful. One of those sights that is forever burned into my memory.
Our next planned stop was to see the waterfalls at the Glenariff Forest Park. We were on our way to the waterfalls at first. We got very close to the turn off when we saw a detour sign….I wasn’t thrilled about this because it meant more windy narrow road driving but Dave was sure that it wouldn’t be too far off, and it wasn’t.  It was about 15 minutes and we arrived at the park.  It was warm and sunny and peaceful.  We were both ready to get out of the car and stretch our legs on a 3.5 km walk. I have to say incidentally that road signage threw me at time. Dave was on top of it thankfully and I made sure we were going the proper speed, but still, why mix them? The path that we took, the waterfall path, was beautiful. We walked along only encountering two others and Dave took many beautiful pictures and I kept making mental notes to remember my surroundings for a later date in time. It was very much like one of those inspirational email forwards with serene pictures of waterfalls in the wilderness, but this time it was in person! It was so relaxing and peaceful until the walk back up the hill. I felt like a 5th grader who didn’t want to and couldn’t quite do it. I was shocked at how sleepy all of the driving made me but Dave was encouraging and we got to the top parking lot from where we had started out. It was rewarding to know that we both made the trip to see such a beautiful natural sight.
We were getting tired and hungry though and it was time to move on. We took the detour back but I found a ‘short cut’ to the Drumkeerin B&B.  This was a small road that wasn’t on our travel map for possibly some very obvious reasons.  It was too narrow and the local traffic seemed to go really fast.  Dave and I were laughing for most of it.  We finally came to the end of the short cut and met up with the road that we would have gone back to after the detour.  We thought we were on our way but not so much.  The directions Mary McFadden had left were somewhat kludgy and we were tired and hungry.  After backtracking a few times, examining the map, and looking for hidden meaning in the terse directions, we finally stopped at another B&B to ask for directions.  Dave went in and found the owner who just happened to be on his way out to feed his brother’s cows at the house next to Drumkeerin, and agreed to let us follow, which we did.  After some maneuvering and turning around in what seemed like nowhere we finally arrived at the top of the mountainside at the home of the McFadden’s. Joe answered the door and wasn’t as happy to see us as we were to see him until he realized that we were in fact the booked guests.  [With the Northwest 200 motorcycle race the next weekend, all the B&Bs were getting a lot of drop-in traffic looking for vacancies.] The view from their front door was probably the most memorable of my trip.  It was absolutely beautiful.  As far as the eye could see there was Scotland, an isle outside of Larne, and the beautiful bay that at nightfall looked as though it could solely be the picture in promotion for visiting Northern Ireland in the first place.
Mary made Dave and I some tea and told us that there were basically two places to eat dinner (Upstairs at Joe’s & Harry’s Restaurant) and they were both so-so and their best advice was to visit one tonight and one the next night. So we went for it. (Harry’s to be exact)  It was good. We had fish.  I had salmon and Dave had some white fish in sauce.  As usual a ton of food but with a Baileys cheese cake slice to top it off it’s no wonder we felt like rolling home.  Good indulgence though.
We drove back to the McFadden’s to take a small walk around their place and to go to sleep. I never got used to the fact that the day stayed so light there for so long.  It would still be dusk at 11pm.
I went in for a bath while Dave watched some TV. I managed to spill bathwater all over the bathroom floor in the process and finally made it to bed. It was a wonderfully exhausting day.
 
Wednesday May 14
 
[Steph writes…]
Early morning breakfast at the McFadden’s before our journey out to Bushmills, the rope bridge, and Giants Causeway.
I had some scrambled eggs with salmon (yummy) and Dave had an Ulster Fry. Mary’s version was the freshest that we had had thus far. Her eggs came straight from the shed on the back of the property where hens gave her a fresh production to cook breakfast with daily.  It was wonderful. Her scones (made with self rising flour) we absolutely fabulous and put mine to shame, and her hospitality was superb.
We were trying to decide in which order we would tour the three designated sites that day as there were likely to be more tourists in this part of the country for a race that was going on.  We decided to go to the rope bridge first and then Bushmills and end the day off with Giant’s Causeway.
[The Carrick-a-Rede Rope Bridge was built by fishermen across a small chasm to get out to better waters.] When we arrived at the rope bridge driveway, which was slightly steep and narrow and hard to maneuver, we found ourselves in a parking lot with a walk ahead of us (about a mile or Km or whatever ). All fine and good but what we had thought was going to be a 20 minute quick stop became a morning adventure.  We passed through the little ranger’s station and bought our tickets and started walking.  It was about a 1 mile walk over to the bridge area.  We finally got there. There is a ranger on the top of these very steep metal steps making sure there is no horseplay on the bridge.  There were a group of college kids from MASS & NY in front of us, and no one directly behind us.  Finally it was our turn to approach the steps and head for our turn across the bridge.  I went first.  It was a pretty view from the top and much more sturdy than I had anticipated which is a good thing.  A few stable steps and I was across.  Then it was Dave’s turn.  He crossed too and I would say that it didn’t scare either of us.  Across the bridge there were the tops of these cliffs with squishy dirt grass mounds on the top.  We walked around a bit, took some pictures, and headed back.
Dave wasn’t feeling that well, but we continued on our way towards the Bushmills. When we got to the town itself we decided to have lunch at this little café before taking the tour.  I called my mom to wish her a happy birthday and Dave and I walked up the main street to the café.  I had some kind of curry and Dave had some chicken sandwich type of thing, but his belly was really hurting so he didn’t have much of an appetite.
When we got to the Old Bushmills Distillery the smell of alcohol was thick in the air. It was a pretty cool place that was built up around the original milling process area and we signed up for the next tour.  The tour itself was much more enjoyable than I ever thought it would be.  We got to see an overview of the entire process and even got to sample some whiskey at the end. It was perfect.  We brought some of their special brew home for a friend and got back in the car for anticipating our drive back towards Giants Causeway.
The late afternoon sun made the drive even more beautiful, and when we arrived at what first looked like a huge tourist trap, we were pleasantly surprised after a long walk down the coastal front path to Giants Causeway. I kept thinking that our surroundings looked like a scene from a Monty Python film. [Giants Causeway is an ancient pathway from Ireland to Scotland, which the giant Finn McCool used to visit his lady friend in Scotland, until McCool’s rival in Scotland tore it up. Or, alternately, if you believe in science, it’s a lava flow from 60 million years ago which cooled and broke apart into thousands of polygonal basalt columns.]
There were many people there taking pictures and taking in the experience of being at such an historic wonder of nature. Dave and I walked around a bit and found some people with cameras that we thought might take good pictures of us in exchange for taking pictures of them. We spent some time there just relaxing and taking it all in. Finally we decided it was time to head back to our wonderful B&B and rest a bit before getting some dinner.
After the drive back and a stop to take a picture or two of incidental road signs, we made it back to our B&B.  Dave still wasn’t feeling that well so he rested for a bit and then we headed out for some dinner.
This night we went to the OTHER restaurant in town, Upstairs at Joe’s. We sat upstairs (as it turns out there is literal meaning in the name) in an empty place sort of wondering where everyone else was. Dave had some potato pie and I had some Salmon and a glass of wine. We didn’t stay out long but we did enjoy our dinner in peace and quiet.
When we got back to the B&B Dave started to get a fever so he went to sleep and I watched some British variant of The Donald Trump apprentice show where the group was trying to make a go of selling bridal gowns and other miscellaneous wedding accessories at a bridal expo.
Dave slept through the night and by my accounts his fever broke in the wee hours of the morning. We got up and had some breakfast before parting ways and heading out towards the Republic of Ireland.
Dave had some poached eggs and toast and I had scrambled eggs with salmon.  Very good.  Over breakfast we asked whether we would have any problems crossing into the Republic – border checkpoints, customs, that sort of thing. Joe said no, they don’t bother with that. “Some people seem to think we’re in a different country here but those of us who live here know better.” A little coffee and a few pictures in front of their home looking out on to the ocean and we were on our way.
 
Thursday May 15
 
[Steph writes…]
The journey to County Donegal wasn’t terribly long. We crossed the border into the Republic of Ireland before lunch time, noticing different signage and a slightly different feel to the road, but we made it to Letterkenny by lunch time and ate a sandwich lunch at a café on the corner that we found after a minimal amount of searching. We picked up some post cards and were on our way.
There had been a loose agreement with the next B&B owner to set us up on a boat tour of the cliffs- Slieve League. We wanted to attempt to get there in enough time that it would still be an option to us to go.
When we arrived at the Ocean View B&B the owner’s teenage daughter greeted us and overwhelmed us with menus to look at for dinner.  We were more interested in finding out about the boat trip that we had anticipated, so she called her mum who was back within 15 minutes.  She then called the skipper of the Nuala Star, Paddy, and arranged for us to get to Teelin pier in about 30 minutes when the next trip (the last for the day) was set for departure. The roads there were very narrow, compact and a half size, but we made it.
When we got into the pier there were another group of people waiting to go. A family from Poland I believe. It wasn’t long before we were on the boat heading out.
There are really no words to describe how incredible the view and the entire trip were.  Somewhat surreal for me, and a definite highlight of the trip.  We saw the cliffs from unusually calm ocean water.  There were little rock beaches where Paddy claimed he has dropped off swimmers in the past to stay for a while and swim and then collects them on a trip in the evening.
It was remarkable to listen to his stories of dolphins in the bay and trips that he has taken in the past. The boat trip lasted about 2 hours.  When we got back to Teelin Pier I collected a rock to bring home for our fireplace mantle where we have several from other trips and one from giants causeway.
We took the winding road back to the Ocean View and relaxed a bit before heading to Kitty Kelly’s restaurant ( www.kittykellys.com ) for what I remember being one of my favorite dinners of the trip. When we walked in they sat us in the reception area and took our drink and dinner orders and then took us upstairs to our table. We thought the practice was a little odd until we realized what was going on.  While waiting, the owner talked to us about the presidential primary campaign and Hillary Clinton.  It surprised us a little that it was making such news over there as well.  For dinner we both had fish dishes with John Dory, which is a local fish there apparently (Dave had a medley dish with John Dory and Monk Fish and Haddock), and they came with fresh asparagus.  I had an oyster appetizer that was baked with cheese and bacon that was quite remarkable as well, and we both had indulgent excellent deserts.  One of the selections was boozy ice cream if that gives you the picture.
After dinner we walked back to the Ocean View and relaxed for a bit. It stays daylight outside until after 11pm so it’s quite difficult to tell your body to go to sleep when it still looks as though you could be out and about, but Dave and I sat on the front patio and looked out over the very still ocean water and decided to head to bed to rest up for our next day of adventure to Sligo.
 
Friday May 16
 
[Steph writes…]
We got up for a breakfast at the ocean view, standard eggs and meats, and I forced Dave to eat some yogurt to help his stomach.  Soon enough we were on our way to Sligo.
We stopped in Killybegs for a bit to wander around and look at the harbor – it’s one of the busiest fishing ports on the island. Then we continued on through Donegal Town and on down the west coast.
The most memorable part of this trip is a drive that we took on Rossnowlach beach. Literally we drove right onto a beach.  I’ve never done this before and at first didn’t know if I could/should, but as it turns out, it was perfectly acceptable to drive onto the beach. At first approach we got little Leon stuck in the sand but with some quick maneuvering and Dave’s help, we got unstuck and parked our car.  As we walked out on the off white sand in virtual seclusion we noticed how common it was for people to just drive out onto the beach there.  We walked out to the break line and got our feet wet in some rather chilly water!  It was very nice though.  I was thinking at the time about my sisters, who were spending the week at their favorite hideaway in Jamaica and claim it’s the only place on earth to be with great beaches – this would have proved them wrong. I'd wager a guess they haven’t seen anything like what we were seeing before. Jamaica had nothing on this!  (Well maybe water temp, but that’s it.)
From the beach we drove into a small town, Bundoran, for lunch.  We stopped in a surf shop and got a poster to frame for the guest room.  Then for lunch we had wraps at this little café, which were really filling, and got a brownie for the ride.
From there we drove through the corner of County Leitrim and into County Sligo.  We stopped along the way at a small grocery store to see if we could purchase stamps, but the post office was closed for a lunch hour so we picked up a soda for the ride and continued on.
Sligo Town is a slightly more urban area than where we had been for the last few days.  The driving was a bit more challenging but finally we found our way to the Tree Tops B&B.  We arrived a bit early but the woman who was cleaning showed us to our VERY TINY upstairs room with an even more minuscule bathroom.  Basically 2.5 feet wide and 5 feet in length.  It gave me a sense of what claustrophobics go through on a daily basis.  We decided to get a few things out of the car and see if we could find directions to the tombs. Dave found one of the owners who gave us some sketchy directions and a map and wasn’t of much assistance in telling us where to go to hear some traditional music that evening, but pointed us to some maybes.
Off to the Carrowkeel Neolithic tombs. This was a very strange experience. We drove up this long driveway like road to get to the farm like road that we had to take to get to the tombs. We had barely any gas. The car was scraping on the ground beneath us as it wasn’t paved but more of a path with livestock surrounding it and a grass patch in the middle. Finally, discussing for the entire trip to the top our plan for running out of gas, we got to what looked like a clearing.
When we stepped out onto the clearing it was somewhat difficult to decide where to go from there. It looked as though any signage from the past was long gone, but after some small amount of trial and error we headed further up the hill. This choice was validated by the enthusiastic archaeologist-like guy hiking down the other way talking about how interesting the tombs were. We continued and found our way to the first two tombs.
Dave decided to be adventurous and climb into each of them. The entire time I’m thinking if there is an earth quake this would not be good…although the chances for that were slim to none…I still wouldn’t have done it.  I took some pictures of him which you will be able to see, and we decided to head back.  We encountered some older folks from Norway on our way down.  Their English wasn’t that great and when asked where we were from our response was the USA and they said the USSR?  We said no, but they responded same thing anyway.  It was somewhat comical.  They showed us their book and gave us a little history in broken English and then Dave and I made our way back to find some dinner.  We didn’t run out of gas, well diesel, but we didn’t run out, we made it to a gas station on our way back.
We found ourselves in downtown Sligo in no time scouting out a place for dinner and music.  People were of little help.  We had a few misguided thoughts but ended up, by chance, at this small café and had wonderful salmon pasta.  Notice a theme here with the salmon.  There is a lot of it there and it’s very fresh and very good.  We enjoyed it and listened to a fellow playing his violin to an iPod for a while inside of the restaurant as it filled up.
From there we decided to go back to Treetops for a night in the tiny room.
 
Saturday May 17
 
[Dave writes…]
Saturday morning we packed up what little bags we had hauled upstairs to the room the night before, and went to breakfast. We sat with a couple from Coleraine who were visiting Sligo to escape the motorcycle race. The man was quite funny as he tried to warn Steph off from trying the black pudding that was served as part of our breakfast. “Yeh have a choice – don’t do it! It’s not worth it!” he cried. His wife countered, “Now don’t go on like that. She can try it if she wants to.” Steph tried it, and thereafter sided with the husband.
We left Sligo, stopping at a shoe store downtown so Steph could pick up a cute pair of red Clarks. Then we headed east to Northern Ireland. Crossing the border went so unnoticed that we missed the turnoff for the Marble Arch Caves and had to go back and look for it again. Misreading the road signs made things harder, and a couple of teenage girls tending the register at a petrol station proved that teenage girls aren’t much help anywhere. We finally found the right road, which kept getting narrower, and higher, until Steph was convinced I had no idea where we were… and then we came upon the car park. We went in and signed up for the next tour of the caves.
The Marble Arch Caves were remarkably interesting. There was a short descent from the visitor’s center to the entrance, and then another down into the ground where a pair of lightweight aluminum boats were waiting on the underground river to take us for a short ride. We were briefed on safety – both ours and that of the delicate rocks – and loaded into the boats for a short but memorable ride. We disembarked and began a much longer walk through the extensive cave system, as the tour guides operated the lighting system and talked all about the history of the caves, their discovery and exploration, and all the rock formations. We saw stalactites, stalagmites, flow stone, cave carpet, cave cauliflower, streams, ponds, tunnels that were once filled with running water and places where the rock was eroded to the point where it looked like it might collapse. After about an hour of walking, we finally exited and climbed the long steep staircases back to the visitor’s center. We bought some postcards and headed out.
We navigated back out to the main road and had some pizza in Enniskillen. After that, it was time for me to try driving. I had the advantage of a week spent acclimating to being on the left hand side of the road, but it was still challenging. Shifting with my left hand was not as confusing as I thought it would be, but estimating the amount of space on either side of the car was a little tricky. Ultimately my first turn at the wheel didn’t last long, as my driving style on the winding roads left Steph a little green. But at least I had tried it and Steph and I traded off driving for the rest of the trip.
It took only a few hours to finish crossing the island (including some U-turns in traffic in Newry and an unsuccessful stop to try to buy stamps) and we were back on the A2 Coastal Road, this time on the southern end of the coast making our way around the Mourne Mountains. The Mournes were lovely – low clouds masked the tops of the mountains, and tiny towns, really just clusters of houses and bars along the road, dotted the coast of the Irish Sea. We passed through Newcastle (a real town) and saw their new promenade along the beach, stopped at a nature preserve to finish our leftover pizza, and headed a little further to our final B&B, the Carriage House in Dundrum. Maureen showed us our very nice, comfortable room, made reservations for us at a nearby tavern, and described some local attractions we could visit to pass the rest of the afternoon. We opted to drive around a bit and then visit Dundrum Castle.
Dundrum Castle was built about the same time, and by the same Norman conqueror John de Courcy, as Carrickfergus Castle, but it’s been in ruins for about the past 200 years. Nonetheless it’s a beautiful site to visit and we had fun wandering around the grounds and looking out from the castle wall over the village and Murlough Bay below.
Hunger finally found us and we made our way to the nearby Maghera Inn, where the bartender introduced me to a Black and Tan, a delicious blend of, in this case, Bass and Guinness, and we feasted on lamb and salmon and chocolate cake. We hung around for a bit to listen to traditional Irish songs sung to a guitar and bodhrán, then headed to bed.
 
Sunday May 18
 
[Steph writes…]
Sunday started off a little later than the rest of our vacation.  We had breakfast at 8:30am and enjoyed sitting in the sunroom at the Carriage house and enjoying a conversation with Maureen the host and looking out into her beautiful garden.  We had scrambled eggs, mushrooms, sausage and ham.  It was totally yummy.  We had plans to go biking in the mountains, so she called David Maginn for us to arrange the bike rental drop off. He said that he’d come around 10:30am so Dave and I went back upstairs to relax a little.
 
[Dave writes…]
The bikes finally arrived around 11am, and two sets of bikes at that – a pair of knobby-tire mountain bikes and a pair of upright cruising bikes. On top of that unexpected choice, David was making suggestions about meeting him at some parking lot in another town nearer to our planned departure point so we wouldn’t have to try to fit the bikes in our car. We weren’t quite ready to hit the road yet, so we arranged to meet him down the road at his holiday rental cottages in a wee bit. We got ready to ride, found him, and decided to simply collect the bikes from him there. We opted for the cruisers on the idea that they would be more comfortable for a longer ride. Unfortunately we later discovered that they didn’t fit very well, and the angle of the seats made for an uncomfortable ride. We drove around for a bit, stopped by the shore in Annalong to hang out in the sun on some big rocks, and headed into Newcastle for lunch. We went to a little highbrow European café where Steph had a tuna fish sandwich and I had an odd sandwich with turkey and cranberry stuffing. We headed over to Kilkeel, where our recommended route started, and tried to get some water and snacks from the local supermarket. Trying to pay proved to be a problem – Europe has been transitioning to credit cards with an embedded chip in them, and this store no longer accepted ones with just a magnetic strip. At this point, rather than ride into the mountains with no supplies on misfit bikes, we decided to scale back our plans and just ride from the B&B in Dundrum down to the promenade in Newcastle. A healthy 9 miles round trip, and very enjoyable.
 
[Steph writes…]
It was mostly great once we got going except for some minor adjustments to the seat which was really hurting me, but Dave swapped bikes with me and we went for it.  It was a beautiful ride.  We rode right into the promenade and stopped at the edge so Dave could take some pictures.  In the meantime there was this guy walking up the strand with no shirt on and it was chilly out and he was all pumped up and looked like he had iodine all over.  It was rather odd, Hercules moment I guess.  We rode on from there to find a place for ice cream.  We were at the end of our trip and the end of our sterling cash so we needed to be slightly economical in our decision.  We rode through some crowds of people and decided to walk our bikes until we found something.  We got to the end of the strand and there was this candy shop that we locked our bikes up outside of but when we got in there it was just soft serve so we went along to a regular ice cream shop and got some real ice cream.  I got rum raisin and Dave got mint chip.  Very good.  We went down to the strand and walked a little and sat down on a bench and talked a little before going to get our bikes for the ride back to Dundrum.  It ended up being such a nice day. We got home with a little effort, relaxed, and had a delicious dinner next door at the Buck’s Head Inn.
 
Monday May 19
 
[Steph writes…]
I woke up before the alarm clock and before Dave.  Ever since I missed that flight in Nashville I get nervous about oversleeping.  It was so nice to wake up at the Carriage House.  The pillows reminded me of the kind I had when I was a kid. I got up and took a shower and started getting things together and got Dave moving along.  We had a plan to have breakfast at 7:30am and have the car packed and ready by then.  We met our time line.  Breakfast was awesome but big.
Maureen (who reminded me of my Sunday school/piano teacher from long ago) made up some scrambled eggs with mushrooms, sausage, and ham. We also had some hot scones from the oven, some OJ, water, coffee, and I had some granola stuff.  I know that I was very full when I left the table but I was thinking it might be a while before we could eat again.
I signed the guest book after talking to her a little bit about how nice it was there.  In reality it was very nice.  She was somewhat anxiety ridden about what she could do to help up out and worried about the bike ride from the previous day.  Dave assured her it was ok.  Then he cleaned the huge bird craps that were in the sight path of the driver’s seat off of the windshield before our short trip to Belfast. We just needed to fill up the car and stop at the post office which we planned to do on the way.
As we left I was a little sad that our trip was over.
Driving at this point was not as difficult as it was on day one and I was pretty sure that we could get to the post office and to the airport with little troubles.  And we had none. We found a post office on the way.  Their gas stations have post offices in them.  Sort of like convenience stores.  We walked in, waited in a short line until the post office opened, and got 23 post card stamps and air mail stickers.  We went over to an adjacent copy machine and stamped and stuck them all and got them to the woman at the window.
It wasn’t long after that that we arrived at George Best [Belfast City Airport].  We successfully returned the rental car with a full tank of diesel and no new scratches or dents (way to go us).  We then made our way to the terminal.  It was a little confusing because we were flying through BMI which we were unfamiliar with. We had to self check in and then proceed to do our bag drop in step two. At that point we just had the two big suitcases to check.  We packed our gifts and extra take homes into a small carryon duffle bag. We made our way to the security line and I threw away the rest of my coffee from the gas station.  The guy at the desk said no liquids right and I said that we just got rid of them.  We proceeded to take our shoes off and load up the trays.  When we got through security I was standing at the end of the table.  The x-ray guy was looking at the duffle bag and said “What is in the bottle?” and I looked at Dave and I looked at the TSA guy and we both said “Whiskey.” It was like one of those moments where time goes really slow and you’re like ooohhh duh.
I started to get a little panicked about it.  I thought that they would make us throw it out but the man said we could check it.  We made our way out of the security line and back to the bag drop that was busier.  Dave was calm as he always is.  I was sort of freaking out because she couldn’t get our checked bags back as they were already on their way to the plane.  We were able to add an additional checked item though, and luckily I had packed a paper bag and we took some breakable non-Whiskey items out of the duffle bag, padded it with our jackets, and sent it off.  Hoping it would make it to Wisconsin. She printed us out new boarding passes because security had already scanned our first ones. We then went back to security where I apologized for making a fuss about it to Dave, and we just sat there and relaxed while we waited to board.
BMI kinda sucks.  Their seats in coach are a little crammed and I am a little spoiled.  But the flight was ok.  I drifted off while Dave wrote in the notebook.  Finally we landed at Heathrow.  You have to walk through what seems like a mile and a half of hallways and security check points just to get to the connecting gate areas.  We got there and talked to the guy at the United counter.  He printed out yet another set of boarding passes that said United on them not BMI.  So at this point we had 3.
From there we decided where to eat lunch.  We were going to go for a bagel place but then decided to walk around.  We found TGI Fridays and decided it was the best way to go.  We sat down and ate lunch.  Dave had a Monterey cheese burger thing and I had a chicken sandwich.  Both of us had their vegetable extract sweetened version of diet coke and our Russian waiter checked us out with his portable credit card swiper where he inadvertently shorted himself 63p because he typed in .18 and not .81 as a tip.
As soon as we were done it was time to go to the boarding area.  We walked what seemed like a half mile to the gate where we went through a pat down and security screening once again.  It was lovely.  The nice woman who was putting her hands on my thighs told me how much she liked my new red shoes.  Dave was looking at me winking.  It was funny.  We waited a little and listened to some BBC news of the earthquake in China before boarding.  We got to our seats and the economy plus section was just about empty.  So there was a little more space and a little less crying screaming kids.
Dave watched a movie called Jumper and I moved up a row to stretch out and watch Grace is Gone.  They fed us some hot bad food.  I had some chicken and green mushy stuff and Dave had lasagna.  After the first movie I went back to talk to Dave for a bit, and we relaxed together and watched Charlie Wilson’s War.  We had gone to Sundance and seen it a few months ago and both liked the movie.  It’s pretty good.  After that we had a little fun and played some cards.  Dave won the game of war.  We talked a little and I feel asleep for a short time after trying to read a bit of the book I started 4 trips ago.
When I woke up we talked and watched the map and ate a little.  United was good about giving us food on the plane.  We got this little sandwich, a bag of crisps, and a Twix bar.  We just talked until we landed.
When we got into Chicago it wasn’t that bad.  Customs line and walk was shorter than the one that we encountered when we entered London on the way in and we were out in no time.  We had to recheck our bags only after trying to see if there was an earlier flight to Madison, which there wasn’t.  From there we took the airport rail to terminal 3, which was my fault, it was the wrong terminal, we then went to 2 which was also wrong but we only found that out after checking the screens in the commuter terminal.  We went to E2a to get a shuttle to terminal 1c gates.  From there we found the red carpet lounge where after a few minutes of trying to find boarding passes and explaining my frequent flyer status, the woman behind the counter let us in. No wonder they charge you a few hundred dollars a year to use these lounges. It made me look at O’Hare in a totally different way. It is a much more relaxed environment.  We sat there.  Dave was dead tired and I got some coffee and put my feet up.  The thing is we sat next to the water cooler and I couldn’t stand the sound of people pouring water. Dave noticed my annoyance and suggested we move, which we did.  I fell asleep for about 20 minutes.  In the middle of my nap this woman came in to the area we were in and started making a phone call to cancel her oncologist appointment.  She was SO LOUD.  It was crazy. We talked a little bit more in a haze and finally made our way over to the gate… where again we got another boarding pass.  We were on our way home.
The flight to Madison was short and I think I fell asleep for 5 minutes or so, but soon enough we landed, got our bags, and made our way out to the cab corral.  There was a bit of confusion but finally we got someone to take us on what seemed like the slowest ride from MSN home ever.
It was good to be home.
 

Jan. 20th, 2008

Steph

Thanukkahistmasears and other adventures between November and the end of December…

I think writing about this is almost as overwhelming as the holidays were themselves, but it’s also exciting because it was a good time and many adventures were had, so here goes.

Thanksgiving:

Dave and I made the decision to drive to our respective thanksgivings together sometime in the two weeks leading up to Thanksgiving. I wasn’t sure that I was going home and he wasn’t sure that he was going to drive home, but collectively we made the effort to split the trip.

We were armed with the classic road trip games but settled in playing the alphabet game. I think that we are actually tied and it’s in "tbc" status until next time, but if you ask me that’s only because there is no ‘Jesus’ anywhere in southern Illinois.

We made it to our hotel in 4 hours outside of Columbus in time to get some much needed rest and get on the road in the morning. Thanks to my frequent traveling at work, the stay was on points, and I have to say that it was one of the nicer Hampton Inns that I’ve stayed at. No Bux to be found we continued on with gas station coffee and more word games until finally arriving in Columbus. We checked out Dave’s high school and I met his parents briefly and was on my way to North East PA. I had about 8 hours (on paper) of driving in front of my. Luckily I found many a starbucks in the rest stops on the turnpike but the drawback was that I found many people in line at them as well as the rest rooms. In fact I think the amount of people in travel mode that I came across far surpassed those of obvious crowds at O’Hare. Perhaps everyone had the same idea as I did. Driving didn’t turn out to be any less expensive than a plane ticket as it turns out, but there was this mad sense of adventure that went along with driving an Audi A3 85 mph on the PA turnpike and getting a call from my older sis who was 6 miles behind me on her way in from Baltimore. We reunited at a dairy queen on the side of 81N right after the turnpike ended in Carlisle. That was just the beginning of the fun though.  I made it into my parent’s driveway at around 11pm. The drive ended up taking 11.5 hours as opposed to 8. Lots of coffee stops and lots of traffic. My mom and dad were very happy to see me, but of coupe I didn’t stay put that long. My brother Chad picked me up and he and Ricky and Dylan and I went to Frank’s place where Dylan ate someone’s takes out dinner that was sitting at the end of the bar because he was hungry. Imagine going into your fridge after a night of drinking to eat your leftovers from Franks (very good wings and pizza) and seeing a few monster bites out of your pizza that you thought was made just for you. I was laughing so hard I had a hard time stopping. After that we went up the street to my little brother Dennis’ apartment and woke him up. It was the funniest thing. Then we all packed into the back of Chad’s red bmw and went home.

Thanksgiving day was a blur of plane rides in high turbulence with my brother Chad who was having a blast scaring the crap out of me, and parlaying $20 at the casino in the Pocono’s after turkey dinner and an inheritance debate over my moms pearl necklace. I found myself going and going and going. It was totally crazy. I didn’t stop for a minute. My mom and I went shopping on Friday and on Friday night I know we did something but I don’t really remember what because there was so much going on. I left for Columbus on Saturday morning to pick up Dave from his RELAXING Thanksgiving vacation. Here is where it gets tricky. I was making AWESOME time. Remember that comment about going 85mph in an Audi A3? Well it caught up with me. I was 7.5 hours into my drive to Dave’s and an exit away from his parent’s house and I see red and blue lights in the rearview. SHIIIITTTT..

I didn’t think that I was actually going that fast because I was looking for my exit, but the police office didn’t seem to agree…well not totally. He came to the window and asked if I knew why I was getting pulled over. I told him that I wasn’t sure, but that I was sure that he was going to tell me. Mistake number 1. He proceeded to tell me that I was following too closely a white car in front of me. To be completely honest with you, I do not recall seeing a white car in front of me at all, but I wasn’t about to get into it with the guy because he already thought I was being cocky. After about 20 minutes he handed me this envelope and I asked him for directions to the exit I was getting off of and went on my way. First things first, I was not calm cool and collected after he pulled away. My heart was racing.

 I didn’t want Dave to be upset with me and I didn’t want to have to pay whatever money to the good people of Ohio because I was following a car too closely. When he handed me the envelope I was too chicken to look at it. I just put it inside my lap top bag and drove on my way. I arrived at Dave’s parents house to be greeted by his family and I was tired like you wouldn’t believe, but instead of going to bed I got my butt handed to me in a game of crossword scrabble. It was a horrible point in the negative loss.  Finally after some pie we got to go to sleep. I felt like I could finally breathe. When we woke up leisurely and hit the road I was in a daze. I let Dave do most of the driving and broke the news about the ticket to him. It would have been that point that I should have looked at the ticket, however it was in the back of the car. It was only several days later when Dave and I were sitting in my bedroom that I actually pulled it out to notice that there was a speeding violation on it as well. I don’t think it’s legal, but I paid the ticket. Again, in its entirety it was much more expensive than a plane ticket. Much! It was nice to meet his family though. They are all nice people and look a lot alike, but I guess that happens where there are only 3 of them to judge as opposed to my 9 in the gene pool.

Oh, one detail that I skipped over is that Dave and I went to Skydive Chicago (Ottawa, IL) on our way to and I got to see where Dave used to Jump and meet up with one of his old friends for dinner. I am so glad that we did that. It was neat to see and his friend was really cool despite the Yellowstone story that really put me in the picture.

Hanukkah:
Dave and I lit the Menorah at home almost every night. It was nice to be included in his tradition and it was also fun making Hanukkah cookies and staying warm in the new blankets. On one of the nights of Hanukkah Dave and I made Kugel and Latkes. Actually I made them for Dave. I thought it would be nice to find something traditional for us and possibly start a new tradition. Both were excellent and we ended up eating them for a few days. We brought the kugel tradition right along with us to my sisters Christmas Eve party in PA to share in a little cross cultural love.

I’m thankful for the experience and sharing that time with Dave.

Christmas Adventures:

This one started on a plane to Cincinnati where Dave and I ate 10lb burritos and (probably more like 1lb) but it hurt my belly so bad that I didn’t want to think about eating for the next few days. I got over it though. Dave was about to embark upon the DeNike 9 and Mom and Dad and the nutritional value of the burritos probably gave him a good running start.

We arrived in Scranton to be greeted by voicemails from Jill, Wendy, Chad, and Dave the original. They all wanted a piece of our time, namely to make an appearance at the Adams Cable Christmas party. When we pulled into the office in Carbondale I wasn’t even sure what to expect, but we walked into some really happy holiday partiers and made our rounds. Dave was introduced to all that were there, but the room was so smoky and it was so late that I knew if we didn’t drive up to my parent’s house that we would never get there. We got there and they were so HAPPY to see us. My mom hugged and kissed us both. You would have never thought I was just there a month ago.

We sat and had a diet coke and moms and saw the beautiful Christmas tree and then headed to Wendy’s house where we were staying during the wor-cation.

When we arrived at Wendy’s there were cars in the driveway and drinks pouring. It had to be 11:30pm if not 12:30am but Dave was a trooper and we joined the party. Krunk is the word to describe the drinking activities going on. We played darts with the pizza guy who was cheating like nobodies business, but I blame that partially on his public school education of PA and partially on his inebriated state. No subtraction skills what-so-ever.  It was nice to hang out with Doug though. I haven’t seen him since the Jamaica trip and he’s got to be one of the most interesting people that I know.  Finally, after 2 drinks, we went to bed. I’m not even sure if Dave had a drop of alcohol during the entire trip, but I had enough for both of us so it was fine.

The next few days brought shopping, framing, wrapping, cooking, more shopping, dinner out, dinner in, diet coke, coffee, various deli meats, and sweet pickles all leading up to Christmas eve. Jill traditionally has a Christmas Eve party and this year was no exception. Dave and I made kugel and quiche, kugel for the party and quiche for Christmas day brunch at my parents.  We arrived and the vodka and grape juice drinks started adding up to eh about 3 when I realized how krunk I was getting and asked Dave to take me home. Ed followed although he didn’t want to as he was interested in networking, but I knew I would regret it if we didn’t. Dave came through for me winning once again the greatest boyfriend of the year award by ensuring that I wouldn’t be hung over for Christmas day.

I woke up and watched trading places at 6am. I don’t know what it is about me but whenever I have too much to drink I always wake up SUPER early the next day. It’s like punishment or something. Thank god those days are few and far between and mostly happen when I’m in PA visiting the family.

I finally got Dave out of bed because I was really excited to start Christmas, namely Christmas presents. We went upstairs, gave Dave the original and Wendy their respective gifts, got ours, loaded the coffee table that I got for my parents into DTO’s truck and drove over to my parents house donning Christmas gifts and hungry belly’s.

We got there and everyone else arrived shortly. I franticly warmed the quiche that Dave and I had made the night before and the feeding frenzy began.

FINALLY we were able to open our presents. My parents got Dave and I Trivial Pursuit GREATEST HITS. (Which is something that we were hoping that we would get!) They also got Dave a blessing plate and candle holders from Jerusalem, a flannel shirt and a really nice fleece vest. I got a matching one too which I’ve worn to the office several times and is on the back of my chair. I got a really nice bathrobe and A PERAL NECKLACE!!! In your face girls!!!

Ok so that was the parental unit gifting, which incidentally Dave made me wait through until giving me his gifts. My mother and I had discussed a kitchen aid knife set in red months prior and I told Dave about it and he apparently called my mother and told her that he wanted to get me the Japan blue steel knives. So the entire time I’m opening the gifts from my parents I was thinking that this was a lot of stuff and I know that she got the knives and she shouldn’t have done all of this, but the knives never came, so I was surprised and very happy to get them from Dave. It was totally sweet. A few weeks ago he put up magnetic knife strips in the kitchen for them. They fit perfectly. That wasn’t the biggest surprise though. If you read a post or two back about the symphony when I saw the pink hat that I loved…well guess what I got!!! It was great. It is great. I love it and it surprised the hell out of me. I have often thought of driving to the hat store on state street to see if I could order one…as it turns out I don’t need to!

Also, I got this beautiful picture frame with the picture of the flower that I picked out and Dave saved forever for me, and two more of my favorite pictures from our surfing trip. Actually the surprises kept coming. A few days prior to this Dave L. and I had met up to go shopping for my Dave. While we were having dinner I suggested that we all go to a hockey game sometime. Dave L. sort of blew it off…well I got three tickets to the UW Men’s hockey game on January 4th. We had a great time and laughed about it later.

Dave got a lot of good stuff from me too, the most mentionable is the watch that replaced his calculator watch and brought in the new year at Dave L’s party.
I’ll let him tell you about it sometime if he’d like to.

I have to say I was pretty umm tired from the previous nights activities and therefore wanted to nap a bit on the sofa at my parents house before Dave and I headed back to Wendy’s with Dave #1’s truck.

I think we slept a little before dinner where I was having a hard time keeping my head up. It was really good and we all did enjoy the holiday ham and other goodies.

It was early to bed for us as we had to get up at 3:30am to get to the airport to get our flight back. We both had to work the next day….it was a really long morning but eventually, two prop planes later, we made it back to Madison!

We had a great time and I hope it will be a tradition that Dave and I continue on with for years to come. It was nice to be home for the holidays.


HELLO 2008!!! New Years Eve.

I want to say that I truly believe that this year will be the best year of my life thus far!

Dave and I dressed up and brought our Stromboli to Dave L’s party. We were greeted by wine and lots of very good food. It was a great time that brought the opportunity to meet and talk with many different and interesting people. My Dave brought in the New Year with his new watch and simply put it was an excellent night. I can’t tell you how happy I was to spend it with Dave. It truly made me realize how lucky I am.

Granted all of these things happened a little while ago, but we’ve both been super busy and the pace of Christmas day has basically kept up with us since…but better late than never.
 

Nov. 27th, 2007

Dave the Wave

Surfing pictures


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Only two monthes late... but they're finally uploaded. The photo set for the surfing trip is here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/poijuggler/sets/72157603309607856/

Nov. 19th, 2007

Steph

I spy the piccolo! A perfect ending to a not so perfect week….

 So Friday night may have started ‘Better off Dead’ with some benadryl, but that’s not how it ended. The fun really started on a tardy note on Saturday morning.
 
On the list was phase one of ‘make the shop a shop again’ and that goodness started late on Saturday morning. I was coming off of the benadryl hang-over and wasn’t quite fully with it, but cleaning things up never scares me, so I did my best to help. One lesson that I got from my childhood (and having four brothers) is that if someone is using power tools, and they actually own them and know how to use them, it’s best to just stand there and observe unless you’re needed. That way two things can happen, you know how to better use them next time, and you’re generally out of the way unless they need you to be in the way. Dave did great hanging up the wood to actually hang things on and I did great holding things when he needed me to. We work well that way. J We were able to build a healthy free cycle pile as well as get some cardboard into the recycling bin. Dave was able to uncover and move some things into place that he’s wanted to for some time, and I was able to help him find two drills and a dust pan that have been MIA for quite some time as well. All in all it was quite good. The biggest triumph is the bottom of the stairs. It’s worth a picture, but since there isn’t a ‘before picture’ I’ll hold back. Just know that it caused a smile and some happiness, and that’s about all you can ask for when you’re talking about that sort of activity on a Saturday morning.
 
Next we got to raking. It was only clean up raking as the majority of it was already done, but the last bit of leaves had fallen over the week and it just needed to be done. I’ll paint a picture for you…freezing cold, damp and rainy...oh and the wet leaves are heavy! I was totally wussing out on this one. Dave is a trooper though. The front yard was much easier to deal with than the back yard…either that or I had less energy when we got to the back yard. Never-the-less, both the front and back yards were pretty much fall free after about an hour and a half of raking. It’s gratifying in the same way that vacuuming the bottom of the swimming pool and seeing a crystal clear blue bottom. Well, sort of. Regardless, we got it done in time to shower and get ready for the symphony and dinner.
 
I have to say that Dave looked super handsome in a really cool tie and pink dress shirt. We went for dinner at what has quickly become my favorite Thai place in Madison and then we headed off for the Overture Center. We got there a little early and took a walk down Street (for those of you who don’t know the reference it’s very much like State Street in Philly or Del Mar Blvd. in Encinitas) to the Hat store which was closed, but in the window I saw the prettiest little pink hat with a white bow that I must have, and if you know me, I won’t mention it or think about it again if it’s not something I really want. I don’t get like that about material things that often, so it’s safe to say that I will be purchasing that pretty little pink hat. We had a frosty walk back up State Street and stopped in the museum store and saw some really cool things too before we headed in for the symphony and to our nose bleed seats. You have to understand, last time our seats were close enough to the stage that we could count the nose hairs on the first chair violin player, this time our seats were far enough away that we could see the percussionist taking a nap in-between his occasional symbol crash. That being said, it was a very cool contrast because we got to see the dynamics of how the entire MSO works together. It was a very good show. The ending piece, Ravel ‘Balero’ was incredible, the snare drum ostinato that opened the piece almost imperceptibly and continued throughout the 15-minute piece with a gradual crescendo to the animated finish, and obviously required some serious drumming skills… was absolutely amazing to watch, even and maybe especially from the nose bleeds.
 
We had a nice drive home after that and had a really relaxing evening that led into sleeping in a little before tackling what would become a busy Sunday morning.
 
It all started with air…yes air in the summer tires on Dave’s car before switching them for the winter tires for our upcoming Thanksgiving road trip. Again, something easy to watch and help out when needed, but as I told Dave, I’m fairly certain that I can now change a tire with little issue on my own just from watching him do it. It was something off of the list and a little safety in the back of my mind…all of this just in time to make it to the Circe Du Soleil Saltimbanco performance. This has to be one of the best surprises for me. I mean I didn’t think that I’d hate it by any means, but I didn’t think it would make me laugh as much as it did. It was great. I really enjoyed myself and I know it’s safe to say that Dave and I had a really good time.
 
When we got home we checked out the maps for the road trip (who knew that they created maps in 1993 with proposed routes that actually made it into existence?) and had a very relaxing evening, goat cheese, eggs, Unbreakable, and all. It’s spending time like this together on the weekend that is priceless.
 
This Monday upon us started out with some coffee and my Mom on the other end of the phone telling me that she misses me and she can’t wait to see me…it doesn’t get much better. God damn right it’s a beautiful day…

Nov. 5th, 2007

Steph

Snow Flakes in BD!


Ode to the first snow fall in a very long time….ok maybe just flurries

Monday November 5th, 2007 will go down in history as the first snow fall of the season in BD Wisconsin and the end of my perpetual summer.  Welcome back to the sanctity of four solid seasons, snow angels, sleigh riding, May showers bringing April flowers, and sun burns in July (not all year long).

Oct. 30th, 2007

Steph

Our California Surfing Adventure



Although we’ve long since past giving parting prizes out for the conclusion of the surfing California 2007 trip, we still need to talk about it because it’s been coming up conversation after conversation, and to be quite frank with you, that weekend was the best weekend that I’ve ever spent in California so here goes...


It started out with one of my ever too familiar late night flights through Chicago. Counterintuitive I know, but it was the best way to start it all out. It was much much more tolerable and enjoyable with Dave’s company in the seat next to me. The first thing that I remember doing is hitting my head off of the bulk head in the plane in Madison several times and then Dave knocking me in the head once too on accident. I felt like my usual, accident prone self, especially when it has anything to do with airports and airplanes.  I travel so much alone that it was a really nice thing to have someone I love in the seat next to me. Almost like I don’t know what I’d do without it next time. It’s a quick hop to ORD so we weren’t stuck on the pencil for that long. When we got into the C gate we were pretty close to where we were going and had just enough time to get a latte and something to eat before we took off for LAX. Dave spent some time finalizing plans for the following day, and it wasn’t long until we boarded. When we got on the plane for LAX there was an elderly man that was French and didn’t speak any English what-so-ever, but Dave got his body language down and offered up his aisle seat to this guy so that he could be closer to his wife across the aisle. I hate getting stuck in the middle seat because I’m short and little and I always seem to get stuck between big guys who just smoosh me in with their elbows, but Dave, being the trooper that he is, gave the guy his seat. Another reason to love Dave. We watched ‘Coming to America’ and had several really good ‘you’ll only get this if you’re on the inside’ conversations. It was by far the best flight I’ve ever been on.

When we arrived in LA we had to go to luggage and wait for the surfboard which we carefully wrapped in bubble wrap a few nights earlier. I was SO nervous about it because it’s such a nice board, but I’m glad that we ended up taking it because it was nice to have with us. Finally it came out of the oversized baggage area and we were on our way to what should have been a quick stop at the rental car place and a short drive to Aunt Jan’s house. There was nothing quick or short about either thing, but one very small convertible later and a few phone calls to Aunt Jan Dave and I finally arrived in Manhattan Beach. It must have been after 1am or close to it. We were both exhausted and I was pretty sure that Aunt Jan wanted to go to bed. She showed us our room options where we ended up making the call to share the one room with two twin beds than to sleep in two totally different rooms. I was wondering about that before hand, but because my Dad isn’t really that reserved I wasn’t sure if she would be or not. It ALL worked out in the end. We woke up pretty early and got ready for the beach. Surf boards, swim suits, board wax and rash guards, we were ready to take it all on. We drove up to Santa Monica to meet up with Dave L. and get some food before we embarked on the journey. Oh yeah, and coffee too.

Our plan of action originally was to surf in Manhattan Beach, but once we got to PCH in Santa Monica and saw the ocean we decided that we’d just stay in the area. The next thing that we needed to accomplish was surf boards for the boys. We ended up finding this board shop pretty close to the beach and the Dave’s got some 9 foot super soft boards. We packed them into the car and headed back to the beach for what turned out to be an awesome day at the beach.

When we got there and suited up we noticed that the break was pretty small, but I wasn’t that worried about it because my surfing skills are out of practice and it was a new sport for the guys to take on. Little did I know that regardless of our strong enthusiasm and our willingness to get knocked around by the ocean for hours upon hours, none of us would actually get up on a board! However disappointing that was, it was insignificant to the fun that we had trying. When I say all day, I mean all day. We took a break for lunch on the strand and much to my surprise it was really good, but it inhibited our ability to get bounced around with the same viciousness later on in the afternoon without feeling a little sick to our stomachs. Dave got a lot of pictures of the ocean. Dave L. paddled out with me more than a few times, and I got my ass kicked by the ocean. I guess leaving California took whatever California that I had in me and traded it in for some cheese in Wisconsin because I wasn’t catching anything, but it was a great feeling to be back in the water even if I was just holding onto my surfboard trying not to fall off or inhale too much salt water.

We took the boards back and watched the sunset before heading to Pete’s house. The night at Pete’s house that we were about to embark upon wasn’t exactly planned before hand, but it turned out to be a great part of our California surfing trip. We stopped at Wild Oats on the way (one of the things that I do miss about California) which is where the ice cream incident and new trout recipe originated. At Pete’s house we were greeted with tequila. That’s always a really great way to start out a night at someone’s house. Let the cooking begin. Dave L. started in on the plantains (which were totally kick ass) and then out came the wine that we picked up at Wild Oats. Dave L. came up with this trout with shallots that was out of this world. The idea came to him somewhere between the produce aisle and the fish counter, but whatever triggers were on at the time of conception is where good things come from because this stuff was out of this world good. Pete also had a hand in the well feed feeling of the night. He made this really good arugula salad with strawberries and some lamb chops on the grill that were to die for. Once the food settled in we decided to hit the hot tub. So it was Dave and I, Pete and his wife, and Dave L. packed pretty tight into this hot tub. It wasn’t easy getting Dave to get in there because his feet were pretty sunburned, but eventually we got him in and I can say without a question of a doubt that he enjoyed it. It felt like we were in there for an eternity. It was rare to be in California in a hot tub outside and actually be able to see the stars. It was a nice night for sure. It was at the point of getting out and deciding to check out our pictures from the day on the TV that Dave L. ruined all preexisting feelings about both Ben and Jerry and what they do with half baked brownies and chocolate chip cookies in ice cream. Something called Java Chip by Starbucks divorced me from Ben and Jerry, and that relationship has been going on since college. Wow is that ever good ice cream! We ate that and drank some more wine…not a total shock given the company, but it was approaching 1am and we still had to drive back to Manhattan Beach and drop Dave off, so soon after our indulgence we called it a night. Dave L. drove us back to his place but we were on our own on the way back to MB. It was late and Dave and I were both tired and not 100% sure of where we were going so inevitably we got lost. The worst part about getting lost was that it was late; the best part about getting lost is that neither of us lost it. We were ok with being lost for the moment. Another thing I love about Dave.


Aunt Jan was asleep when we got back. There are a few reasons that it’s ok with me and it’s not because I’m rude, but the main reason being is that she’s really laid back and doesn’t seem to have things like that bother her. She always wants everyone to have a great time and she’s always up for seeing her brother’s daughter and I suspect it’s because she hasn’t seen him in a really long time. We did make it to bed, well our own little beds, but we eventually got there. It felt like a high school sleep over (although I never was lucky enough to have a high school sleep over with a boy, let alone a boy like Dave…sorry Mom I had to throw that in) where you’re being really quite and trying to whisper across the room to someone when you know fully well that you should be asleep. We truly had fun.

Sunday morning started a little later then the game plan for Saturday. We woke up, packed and went downstairs to meet up with Aunt Jan. She was working on her newest book and was happy to take a break with us to chat about the house she was looking at buying in Ridgefield Connecticut (where she and my Dad grew up) and drink some really nasty super muddy instant DECAF coffee. I’m a trooper and I know it. Dave took some interesting pictures of the outside of her house and then the three of us went to The Kettle for brunch. It was 11:30am after all! So not only did I have an epiphany about ice cream, but I also had a honey bran muffin that was the best ever that morning. Dave got this crab cake benedict that LOOKED out of sight, and I don’t even remember what Aunt Jan had unless it was the same thing. I was totally focused on my muffin and although I did share some of it, I didn’t want to share much of it. I tried to catch her up on the east coast family as much as possible without correcting her too often on things she was totally wrong about. I mean don’t you hate that, you’re with a relative that you don’t know that well and you have a ton of brothers and sisters, most of whom the relative has never met, and it’s like where do you start correcting the relative and where do you just give in and smile and nod?  I think she and my Dad talk a few times a year for a few minutes, so the substance wasn’t there, but I just let her go with it. It stands out enough in my mind to write about it though. Anyway, we were really full when that was all over and we walked back up the hill to Aunt Jan’s house and headed out for the adventure down the 5 to San Diego.

Dave drove. Dave drove the drive that is on my top 5 list of things that I hate to do. Dave got brownies at some point when we got home in honor of doing that. It was really strange for me to be back in the old neighborhood. To drive by my old house and drive into Balboa Park, but the good part about that was the memory of being there with Dave. It gave Juniper Street and Balboa Park a whole new perspective for me. We walked all around Balboa Park and the international houses. We even stopped in the botanical gardens and walked through the recital hall passage that I am all too familiar with. It was so nice to be there with Dave. At that point we were debating on getting something to eat and what to eat and where. Something came to mind and we had to go there. Casa Guadalajara in old town San Diego was out destination. It was by far my favorite Mexican restaurant in SD, and I was pretty sure that Dave would dig it. As it turns out he did. The place has some really great salsa as well as some fish bowl margaritas that are outstanding. Let’s just say that Dave drove us back to Carlsbad (where we were staying for the night) because I had two of them. It didn’t stop us from enjoying the Mexican table bands and the really really good food. We took our time and it was excellent. On the way back to CBD we took the PCH and stopped in Del Mar at the coastal break for a walk on the beach. It stands in my memory as one of the nicest nights of my life. It was just incredible to be on the beach with the sun going down and Dave by my side. Things like that make life that much better. I have a rock from the beach that night in my kitchen.

We did make it back to Carlsbad but we were so tired that we went to sleep pretty early. We planned on hitting South Ponto in the morning for a little surfing and we had been going for two days straight so it’s a really good thing that we got to sleep early.

Monday morning we did head out for Ponto at 7am. I suited up and Dave took pictures. When I got in the water there was such a contrast from the water in SM that I was shocked. I barely got my arms over the side of my board and I knew that I was officially downgraded to Cub Scout status. I didn’t have it in me so I got out of the water and we drove down to the breaker and took pictures of some really good surfers. Well Dave took pictures and I went back to my memories of surfing there with my friends and it was just a good thing all around. You might even say it was all good. After that we went to Marie Calendars and got some breakfast burritos and headed back to the hotel to pack it up and head back to LA.

It’s around the lunch time point in Long Beach that I’d have to ask Dave if he likes fish tacos and if so if he likes Thai fish tacos…he may even answer yes.  One of the things on our 'to do' lists was to have fish tacos. Love them. My favorites come from Rubio’s. Dave had never had them before so it was a good opportunity to get him to try them out. Well we did get a little lost in Long Beach when we got off the 5 to find a Rubio’s and traffic was a little heavy so when we were passing a bunch of restaurants and I saw Pei Wei and I said “Oh there’s Pei Wei, it’s a like a mix of Chinese and Thai” and Dave was concentrating on driving so he may not have heard all of that. We finally turned on the correct street for Rubio’s and I couldn’t find it and Dave turns to me and says “there it is” and I said “Oh my gosh, you’re right”…as it turns out there is a Rubio’s right next to a Thai place (Phucket Thai) on Long Beach Avenue in Long Beach. Dave was in search of Phucket Thai. I was in search of Rubio’s. They coexisted as we do.  For the record, Dave really liked the fish tacos from Rubio’s.

We headed on from there and made it back into Santa Monica to the California SW office (where Dave L. was working) to meet up with Dave L., Pete, and Justin for dinner. Pete had found this Wolfgang Puck restaurant that we were going to check out, so we headed there and collectively had one of the best meals that I’ve had out in a long time. When I say good stuff I mean it. Time was ticking though and I think that we could all feel it. Our weekend in the west was coming to an end and we knew that we had one hell of a red eye in front of us. We finished dinner and headed across the street for a drink to close it all down.

Dave and I said our good-byes to his people and our California and headed for home. Checking the surfboard wasn’t that bad and neither was the plane back. There is something to be said for two people that can take a 4:30am arrival at ORD, have their connecting flight canceled, and still have an extraordinarily good time at the airport. We are good like that.

Dave the Wave

Freakfest Photos


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As Steph mentioned, here are the pictures from State Street:  http://www.flickr.com/photos/poijuggler/sets/72157602779655270/
Enjoy!
 

Oct. 29th, 2007

Steph

Pies, Salt, Sushi, and State Street

 
This weekend was successful. I was reminded of my shortcomings when it comes to salt, but I was also reminded what it's like to enjoy sushi with good company. As it turns out, we have great sushi in Madison!

It all started on Friday night, as most things we are made of do ;-)

Dave and I ventured out to meet up with Dave L. and company for sushi. With the exception of the short trip to The North Face store and some good surprises, such as discovering that there is a Macy's and a Ben and Jerry's less than a mile away from Dave's house (not to mention the drive-thru Bucks that I found), our night started out with this really good cherry beer *Wisconsin Belgian Red* I don't usually go for beer, but this was totally worth it. Dave enjoyed it too. Onto sushi from there at Muramoto. So excellent that we all went for seconds! The Godzilla roll stands out in my mind still. We had some sushi newbies with us that thoroughly enjoyed the experience as well. All in all, it was a great night with good company.
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Saturday:

Saturday morning started a little later than 8am for sure. We had a pretty big list to follow (I love Dave and his lists!).. We started off at the west side farmers market to get some apples and another pie pumpkin for the much anticipated pie bake, as well as some fresh ingredients for Dave's really good curry. From there we went to BBB to get some decent apple peelers and a nutmeg grater. While we were there I was pretty disappointed that they didn't have any other pie plates besides the standard Pyrex dish, (which we obtained) but I was in search of something slightly different. My Oma got me into baking apple pies a long time ago. I remember that she come to my very first apartment with pie baking gear and some apples to show me how it was done, and it's been a tradition of mine ever since. She always had very pretty pie plates to bake in and I've had some nice ones in the past so Dave and I went in search of your 'not so average' pie plate. We stopped at Target to see if they had what I was looking for, but we ended up going to Williams Sonoma to get the good stuff. We ended up with two really nice Emile Henry pie dishes in anticipation of two really kick ass pies, and some WS hot chocolate mix (you have to try it if you haven't already). From there we went to the grocery tore to get the rest of our baking and curry supplies. After a quick lunch at Noodles (smile Lex) and a last minute trip back to the farmers market to get enough apples for a second pie, we headed home to embark on the baking journey. Dave and I made the pie crusts and put them in the fridge and decided to cut the pumpkin to start things off. Surprisingly it wasn't that difficult to bake the pumpkin and process the insides in the food processor, the only thing is that it seemed to take forever, but there was an end in sight, and it slightly resembled baby food, but it smelled really good. The final step was to mix all of the ingredients with the pumpkin mush and pour it into the pie shell. Let me tell you, a good cook usually tastes food for season as he goes, however, I tend not to do that, and that is my downfall, but something told me that I should at least make sure it tastes like pumpkin pie soup before I poured it into the pie dish. Well, my mouth was in a salt lick shock. I asked Dave to give it a taste and he too agreed that something was wrong. Then I thought of what I did. Dave has (had) a container RIGHT NEXT TO THE BAG OF SUGAR on the top of his fridge that looked very much like sugar, and because the rest of the salt in his house is kosher salt, I didn't really think that I'd need to test it, I just measured out a cup of what I thought was SUGAR into the pumpkin mush...as it turns out, there was salt in that container RIGHT NEXT TO THE BAG OF SUGAR on top of the fridge. Two and a half hours later I found myself highly crushed over a sauce pan full of pumpkin guts and salt wit a little cinnamon on the side. That was a good breaking point for Dave to be the awesome boyfriend that he is and suggest a 'little break'. We made plans to go to the Halloween Freak Fest on State St. so it gave me time to go buy a new pie pumpkin and Dave time to go get the tickets before we got back into the trials tribulations of baking another pumpkin. This time I tasted the sugar that I got straight from the sugar bag before I added it to the mix of what ended up becoming a fantastic pumpkin pie, round 2.

We stopped with the pumpkin pie and added the apple pies to the list of things to do for Sunday...(which was already quite full) and concentrated our efforts on eating something and getting ready to brave the cold on State Street. A few glasses of wine later, and some eggs in our bellies, we were ready to go. Dave's friend came over to meet us and we left, boys with cameras ready to take some pictures of the insane people dressed (some barely dressed) on State Street. Let me tell you, my thin California skin felt like a layer of ice even under my wool car coat and some borrowed gloves. We saw everything and anything you could imagine, from the scantily clad girls in their underwear, to a few Tetris groups, to a herd of chickens. It was great. Dave took a lot of pictures, as did his friend, and I just took it all in. It felt like 6am and -25 degrees when we finally made it home around 3am, but that didn't stop me from being so cold that I couldn't stand it. I don't think that I could have been any closer to Dave to try to borrow some heat, but it wasn't working. I ended up finding additional warmth in blankets and finally falling asleep with a big huge headache, probably from dehydration and cold, but we managed.

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Sunday:

Sunday seemed to start even later than Saturday did, and that's ok with us because weekend sleep-ins are few and far between the weekly grind. I think we managed to get out of bed around 11 and got cracking on pealing those apples...well after a quick run through the drive thru for a latte and whole foods for some substance in the form of chocolate chip muffins.

The apple pealing adventure goes much better with two people and good peelers. Dave helped me knock it out rather quickly, but Mr. Precise was cutting the apples in such a way that he even halved the stem. Gotta love Dave and his logic...as well as his mad slicing skills.

I finished the apple pies while Dave started working on the large amount of pictures from the night before. This took some time on both sides, and in case you're wondering, I did make sure it was sugar that I was using in the pie mixture.

While the pies were finishing up, Dave got us ready for a bike ride. It's on my list of favorite things to do with Dave, and despite the freezing cold temperatures (55 ish), I was a trooper and was more than happy to hop on my bike and go for a ride with Dave. During our last ride my bike suffered some damage to the spokes, actually I think it was four spokes that snapped off right in the middle, so Dave got it fixed for me sometime in the last month, and we were able to go out for a good ride. Thankfully, my tuned up bike behaved, and my new helmet (Dave ran over my other one) worked really well. I think it was about 8 miles that we did, stopping at the Union and freezing some more between some fundamental camera lessons by Dave, who pulls patience out of thin air because I ask a lot of 'why' and 'how' questions. We made it back home in time to take some hot showers and get ready for Dave L. to come over for curry and pie.

The curry was my Dave's best ever. Despite the rice time incident, which I think really blew Dave's mind. Dave L. has a somewhat unconventional method to cooking rice. Regardless, it was an awesome meal among good company. The best part about it is that I have leftovers for lunch!! (As it turns out) Dave L. kicked my ass in Yahtzee, but I was ok with that as long as it wasn't my Dave kicking my ass in Yahtzee. Our night ended down a bottle and a half of wine and full bellies. Still Freezing.

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